MASTERCLASS

Sex & Attachment

Attachment styles have a profound impact on the way we experience intimacy in relationships — and that includes sex.

How many of these can you relate to?

  • your relationships tend to start with intense sexual chemistry followed by a shift in the sexual dynamic as things become more serious

  • you and your partner seem to have noticeably different sex drives, and it often leaves one of you feeling pressured and the other rejected

  • you tend to catastrophise and assume there’s something seriously wrong if your partner doesn’t want sex (e.g. they’re cheating on you, they’re not attracted to you, or they’re going to break up with you)

  • sex is a very sensitive subject in your relationship, and you struggle to talk about sex without it becoming a source of conflict and blame

  • sex (or a lack thereof) feels like the elephant in the room that neither of you wants to talk about

If you can relate to some or all of these, your attachment style might be causing friction in your sex life.

The problem with a lot of popular sex advice is that it’s written for people who are already secure in their relationships.

Let’s be honest — advice like “tell your partner exactly what you want in bed” is all well and good for someone who is pretty confident and comfortable in themselves…

But if you’re someone whose insecure attachment causes them to viscerally fear abandonment, vulnerability, rejection or intimacy?

You and I both know it’s not that easy.

In this 90-min masterclass, you’ll learn how different attachment styles relate to sex, what the common pain points are, and how to overcome them.

  • how people with anxious, avoidant & disorganised attachment styles each relate to sex

  • common struggles of each attachment style and where to focus for growth

  • the anxious-avoidant sexual spiral (and how to combat it)

  • navigating sexual challenges like mismatched libido, difficulty being present, and communication

  • what a secure sexual relationship looks like

WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW

  • Sex & Attachment was recorded as a live masterclass, so you’re purchasing access to the recording of a live class.

  • US$66 until 30 September; US$88 afterwards.

  • Yes indeed - so you can take your time and/or revisit it as and when needed.

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