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Break free from overthinking, self-doubt, and relationship anxiety — and finally feel secure in love.

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If you're tired of feeling like you're too much, not enough, or constantly waiting for the other shoe to drop — this course will show you another way. One where you can trust yourself, trust love, and build the secure, fulfilling relationship you've always wanted.

Anxious attachment isn’t who you are. 

It’s a set of survival strategies that you picked up early in life, before you knew any better. You learned to keep yourself safe by keeping people happy and close. But somewhere along the way, that trade-off meant abandoning yourself — minimising your needs, biting your tongue, second-guessing yourself, prioritising others' comfort over your own. 

But the thing is: anxious attachment isn’t who you are. It’s a set of strategies you’ve come to rely on. And because it’s learned, you can learn another way — one where you feel anchored in yourself and your worth, where you can calmly and confidently advocate for what you want and need, and where you can trust yourself to hold steady rather than collapsing into fear and self-doubt. 


IT’S TIME TO LAY DOWN THAT HEAVY BURDEN, AND START SHOWING UP FOR YOURSELF IN A NEW WAY.

DO YOU STRUGGLE WITH:

When we don’t really like, respect, or value ourselves, we tend to rely heavily on the validation and approval of others to make us feel better. But this only leads us further away from our centre, and we end up not knowing who we really are. 

Anxious attachers are constantly on the lookout for signs that their partner is going to leave them, reject them, betray them — and oftentimes, our attempts to prevent this from happening can backfire and push someone away.

When you’re so accustomed to focusing on others, it can be really hard to trust yourself — your perception, your feelings, your experience. This can lead to overriding your intuition and better judgment, and staying in unhealthy situations way past their expiry date. 

You Need

Healing anxious attachment requires that we rediscover who we are — what we think, feel, need, value, and desire.

Without healthy boundaries, we overextend ourselves, take responsibility for what’s not ours to carry, and try to control the uncontrollable. Boundaries are how we create peace in our lives.

Until we learn to respect and value ourselves, we will always approach connection from a place of desperation and deficit. When we build self-worth, we stop trying to chase and convince others to choose us, and start embodying true confidence. 

LET ME INTRODUCE

Healing Anxious Attachment

My best-selling 8-week course to help you rewire your anxious attachment patterns, heal your core wounds, and discover the tools you need to experience healthy, secure relationships.

Course breakdown:

01

Introduction to Attachment

In this foundational module, we explore the basics of attachment theory and what it means to have an anxious attachment style. You’ll gain clarity on how this shows up in your relationships and learn about the common dynamics between anxious, avoidant, and fearful-avoidant partners. We’ll also introduce some key somatic concepts that will support your healing journey.

02

Exploring Our Origins

This module dives into how our early family experiences shape our attachment patterns. You'll explore the origin wounds that influence your relational blueprint, connect with different parts of yourself that formed in response to your upbringing, and begin the process of becoming your own secure attachment figure.

03

The Role of the Nervous System

In module 3, we look at how your nervous system influences your emotional responses, especially in moments of stress or conflict. You'll learn how to self-soothe and regulate your nervous system when triggered, and begin building a toolkit for greater resilience and emotional safety.

04

Understanding Your Core Wounds

In this module, we explore the deeper emotional wounds and negative core beliefs that often underpin anxious attachment. You’ll gain insight into how wounds around abandonment, rejection, and unworthiness drive protective strategies and begin the work of reprogramming limiting beliefs at the core.

05

Empowered Self-Advocacy

In module 5, you’ll learn how to recognise your core emotional needs and set healthy, self-honouring boundaries. We’ll also look at how to communicate your needs clearly and shift away from shame or anxiety around being “too much” or “too needy.”

06

Anxious Attachment & Dating

This module unpacks the unique challenges that anxiously attached people face when dating. We’ll cover common pitfalls, how to manage anxiety and expectations, and how to date from a place of self-worth instead of fear or urgency.

07

Building Healthy Relationships

In module 7, you’ll learn how to navigate triggers in relationships with more awareness and self-regulation. We explore the anxious-avoidant dynamic in depth, how to understand and relate to avoidant partners, and the skills that support secure, balanced relationships.

08

Secure Sexuality

This module explores how anxious attachment can impact your sexual expression, intimacy, and self-image. We’ll look at common attachment-driven dynamics in the bedroom and begin laying the foundation for cultivating a secure and empowered relationship to your sexuality.

WHAT BECOMES POSSIBLE

You stop questioning your worth and chasing love, and instead start feeling secure in who you are.

You begin attracting (and choosing) relationships that feel aligned, supportive, and reciprocal.

You build a strong sense of self, grounded in self-trust.

Your relationship patterns shift — not by accident, but by design.

You start to feel calm in your own company.

You’ll let go of the constant overthinking and emotional spiralling that used to consume you — and experience more peace, ease, and confidence than ever before.

The people you connect with now reflect your growth — they honour your needs and show up consistently, because you do.

You’re no longer compulsively checking your phone or anxiously replaying conversations in your head. You know how to regulate your emotions, advocate for yourself, and honour your boundaries — even when it’s hard.

Instead of falling into the same painful dynamics on repeat, you recognise them in real time and choose differently. You stop abandoning yourself to try to keep someone else.

You feel at home in your body, more emotionally resilient, and able to meet life’s ups and downs with grace and strength.

MY 3-PART FRAMEWORK

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Regulate Your Nervous System

We begin by building safety in your body. You’ll learn to identify when you’re activated and gently bring yourself back to centre using tools for self-soothing, emotional regulation, and nervous system resilience. This step lays the foundation for lasting change.

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Rewire Core Beliefs

Next, we address the deeper stories that keep you stuck — the ones that convince you you're too much, not enough, or destined to be abandoned. Through guided exercises and reflection, you’ll begin to shift these beliefs and reconnect with your inherent worth.

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Learn Secure Relationship Skills

With a solid internal foundation, you’ll begin learning how to show up differently in relationships. This step equips you with practical tools to communicate clearly, set boundaries, build trust, and relate from self-leadership rather than fear.

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“The best thing I have ever done — you just must do this course. I literally feel unstoppable now.”

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Success Stories

WHAT SHANA SAID

“In the last 6 weeks I've made many breakthroughs that I wasn't able to in 6 years of therapy.”

Words are not enough to describe this course. I finally understand myself and know that I am not crazy for feeling like this. I will be forever grateful and will continue to work at this with all the tools I learned. This course will help me for the rest of my life. 

WORDS FROM TELLY

“Life-changing in the best possible way.”

I believe in myself and love myself so much more than I ever have. Taking your program has been so amazing, and I’m *so* grateful that I discovered you, Stephanie. I’m crying as I type this. I just wish I had known and understood all that you have taught me many years ago. My life would have been so very different.

michelene said

“One of the best investments I’ve made in myself.”

I had so many major personal revelations in Healing Anxious Attachment. Each module led me to a deeper understanding of my wounds, my beliefs, my old stories, and my truths. I unpacked years of emotional pile-up, and I believe it is planting the seeds for a transformational season in my life.

You’re already working so hard.

I see you — with all your ruminating, reflecting, analysing, reading, researching, and playing detective. You're not lazy. You're not avoiding the work. You're constantly thinking about how to fix things, how to be better, how to feel safer in love.

You're already pouring so much time, energy, and attention into your relationships. But what if all of that effort could be channelled into a proven path? What if you had tools that actually helped you feel differently, rather than just collecting more information that leaves you feeling less clear?

Healing doesn’t have to be so confusing, lonely, or hard. You don’t have to do it all by yourself anymore.

you're in the right place.

“Considering what you pay for 1:1 therapy, this course is a steal! It would take session after session after session to cover the material that Stephanie covers here. Do it!”

— Jo, Course Graduate

Know how to regulate your nervous system and calm yourself in moments of anxiety or overwhelm.

Be able to recognise and interrupt anxious patterns before they take over.

Communicate your needs and boundaries clearly, without guilt, shame, or second-guessing.

Feel more secure in who you are — no longer chasing, people-pleasing, or walking on eggshells in relationships.

Understand why you’ve been stuck in painful relationship dynamics — and how to choose differently going forward.

Reconnect with your self-worth, and finally feel anchored in who you are and what you have to offer.

“I am stronger and more at peace since taking this course.”

I listen to my heart more, valuing what is there. I am not afraid to be alone. I do not abandon myself nor reject myself when I see my relationship struggling. I understand why, and I want better for both of us.”

- HEIDI

I’m a certified relationship coach, host of the top-ranking On Attachment podcast, and creator of Healing Anxious Attachment — a program that has helped over 3,000 students all over the world to heal their anxious attachment patterns and learn how to live and love from a secure base within. 

I USED TO BE WHERE YOU ARE.

i can help because i've been there

I know how it feels to be in the depths of anxious attachment — insecure, scared, and out of control.

I created this course because I know how painful it is to feel like you’re always chasing connection, walking on eggshells, and losing yourself in relationships. I also know that real, lasting change is possible — not through quick fixes, but with the right tools, nervous system support, and a whole lot of compassion.

Healing Anxious Attachment is the course I wish I had when I was in the thick of it. And I’d be honoured to support you through it.

but nowI know how to help!

This course is different. Here's why.

You’ll feel deeply seen here — not pathologised, not blamed, and never shamed.

This is a space where your anxious patterns make perfect sense, where the wisdom and pace of your nervous system is respected, and where your story is held with care and compassion.

But this isn’t just a feel-good space. It’s also a call to take your power back. You’ll be lovingly held to account — invited to take responsibility for your healing, your boundaries, your choices. 

I’m not interested in clickbait, TikTok diagnosis, or reductive tropes.

This work is nuanced, thoughtful, tender, and complex — just like you, and just like the relationship patterns you’re trying to heal.

If you’re ready to move beyond overthinking and into embodied, lasting change — you’re in the right place.

COMPREHENSIVE Self-paced lessons

DETAILED supporting materials

Follow a proven roadmap

Translate theory into practice

I CREATED THIS  PROGRAM TO                                ON YOUR HEALING JOURNEY.

I CREATED
THIS  PROGRAM
TO                             
ON YOUR
HEALING JOURNEY.

Join me — and the thousands of others who’ve said yes to themselves — in reclaiming your sense of safety, self-worth, and emotional freedom. Inside, you’ll find the clarity, support, and grounded guidance to radically shift how you show up in love and life. 

Because you deserve to feel calm, confident, and connected in your relationships — starting with the one you have with yourself.

Walk With You

Let this be the start of a new chapter where you:

Heal the subconscious patterns that keep pulling you into the same painful dynamics

Feel deeply grounded in who you are, even when relationships feel uncertain

Learn to regulate your nervous system and respond instead of react

Cultivate secure relationship skills that honour both self and other

Build a rich and fulfilling life where you no longer abandon yourself for love

Reclaim your power, without needing to prove anything to anyone

21-DAY
“DO THE WORK”
POLICY

I wholeheartedly believe in the power of this course — so if you join, complete the first three modules in full, and still feel it isn’t a fit, simply send us your completed workbooks within 21 days of purchase and we’ll refund you in full.

100%

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This      for you if:

is

You're ready to finally break free from anxious attachment patterns

You're willing to go deep on yourself — not just obsess over what your partner is doing

You want to feel secure and grounded, no matter what’s happening in your love life

It's probably        for you if...

not

You're looking for a magic bullet instead of lasting transformation

You're not open to self-reflection or taking responsibility

You aren’t ready to translate theory into practice

Let me show you another way.

THERE'S LIFE BEYOND ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT.